personally I like the comment with a flag. If it deserved to be flagged, so it should be. But if I didn't know why, then I just think fishy stuff is happening when it disappears.
At least the comment would still show in the notifications and the poster would know what happened. Just my opinion though. If I'm a duplicate I'd like to see a link to the original. Things like that.
Perkalicious11 (rep: 4.9k) posted Feb 10, 2011
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