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catchersmom
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I sit here as my best friend and the love of my life a man I spent 29 plus years with is in the ICU of the hospital. I think of the things that can go wrong. None of it has to do with tax deduction, money. To lose him would mean I have lost my soul mate, my best friend. I could not imagine my life with out him. He brought normal to my life so many years ago. I would in one word be lost. 

I only hope they figure out what is wrong and tomorrow we have answers.Because well I just don't know.  
catchersmom posted Oct 21, 2012
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rd995

sorry to hear that catchersmom hope everything goes well and he gets to go home soon

rd995 (rep: 118k) posted Oct 21, 2012

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nimrodboy3

we're here to help, here to listen, here to read..and here to support.

nimrodboy3 (rep: 68k) posted Oct 21, 2012

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Brentheriot

Thank you for deciding to share that with us. Sometimes we can all use a little reminder to be grateful for the ones we love. I pray that you'll get your answers soon so you and your best friend/soul mate can go home together. I can relate to how you would feel lost without him. It is a GOOD thing that he has you there with him (in sickness and in health)

Brentheriot (rep: 63.9k) posted Oct 21, 2012

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Raelin123

We are dealing with it with our own method, all the methods would help you to make your own decision, wish to help you indeed!

Raelin123 (new user) posted Oct 21, 2012

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FibroMom

My thoughts and prayers are with you both, ♥

FibroMom (rep: 186k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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glwrks

Prayers added.

glwrks (rep: 122k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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nthsll

I'm sorry to hear about your husband Catchers. Best wishes for good outcomes.

nthsll (rep: 12.4k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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catchersmom

Thank you all, They have at least got his blood pressure stable, dropped last night to 55/over something else low. Met with the doctor, they are still baffled, but his white count is really high and it may be a blood clot, and watching his heart as in the past he has had issues there. 2 stints in the end of Aug and a year ago massive heart attack and one stint.

Thanks for the prayers all are welcome

catchersmom (rep: 22k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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branie

Prayers to you and your family catchersmom. Hope your husband makes a full recovery soon. Positive vibes sent your way.

branie (rep: 54.9k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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erick99

This has to be very difficult for you. Take good care of your husband but make sure you are taking good care of yourself as well. Both of you need you.

erick99 (rep: 37.8k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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encorez

good luck to you both.....

encorez (rep: 10k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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poe601

Prayers to you and your family.

poe601 (rep: 321k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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EzzyLovesToSave

Your family is in my heart and prayers....

EzzyLovesToSave (rep: 363k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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newguy

My thoughts and prayers for you both...

newguy (rep: 148k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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ArtemisDeals

I hope he gets better soon. But in the mean time you and your family are in my prayers :)

ArtemisDeals (rep: 7.2k) posted Oct 22, 2012

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ancagavs

I know that it doesn't mean much because he's the only one you're thinking about, but, I'm there for you.

ancagavs (rep: 17.7k) posted Oct 23, 2012

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zoneric

I hope everything turns out ok for you.

zoneric (rep: 46.8k) posted Oct 23, 2012

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ishoplive

I am sorry to hear this, and hope you would be strong and hold the live.

ishoplive (rep: 372) posted Oct 24, 2012

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catchersmom

Thought I would update every one, after 5 day's in the hospital my husband came home, Final prognoses he has Hashimoto's Thyroiditis which is an autoimmune disease, with the thyroid being the condition, It was attacking his body and along with the meds he was taking for his heart, it was winning. So they have straightened it all out we hope. But he is snoring in the family room so all is good

Thanks for the prayers and thoughts

catchersmom (rep: 22k) posted Oct 25, 2012

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